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YOU ARE THE MAN

Called According to HIS Purpose

“Be Watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.” - 1 Corinthians 16:13

Everyday Men, Everyday Husbands, Everyday Dads Called According to HIS Purpose…

 TO LEAD! 

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Book, Men’s Discipleship Guide, and Couples Small Group Study

You Are The Man - Called According to His Purpose

Book about “Calling men to live, lead, and walk boldly in the purpose God designed.”

You Are The Man – Called According to His Purpose is a bold and honest call to men to step into the identity, responsibility, and purpose God has placed on their lives.

Written for men who feel the weight of leadership—at home, at work, and in their faith—this book challenges the modern definition of masculinity and replaces it with a biblical one. It reminds men that they were not created by accident, nor are they defined by culture, past failures, or current struggles. They are called—intentionally and purposefully—by God.

Through personal stories, Scripture, and practical application, the book confronts issues many men silently carry: identity, integrity, spiritual apathy, leadership in the home, and the cost of following Christ. It is not about perfection, but about surrender, obedience, and growth.

You Are The Man is both a personal discipleship journey and a practical tool for small groups, designed to spark honest conversations, encourage accountability, and help men lead with humility and courage.

At its core, this book asks one defining question:
Will you answer the call God has placed on your life?

You Are The Man - 14 Week Men’s Discipleship Study

“A 14-week journey designed to shape men into intentional disciples of Jesus.”

You Are The Man – 14-Week Men’s Discipleship Study is an intentional, Scripture-rooted journey designed to move men from passive belief to active obedience.

Created to walk alongside the book You Are The Man – Called According to His Purpose, this study meets men where they are—whether in a mentor-to-man relationship, a small accountability group, or a larger men’s study setting. Over fourteen weeks, men are challenged to examine their lives honestly, grow in spiritual discipline, and apply biblical truth to everyday leadership at home, at work, and in their faith.

This is not a lecture-style curriculum or a surface-level Bible study. It is a relational discipleship experience, built around Scripture, guided conversation, and practical application. Each week encourages men to move beyond information and into transformation—strengthening identity, integrity, obedience, and brotherhood.

The goal is simple but demanding:
to help men grow deeper in their walk with Jesus and step confidently into the purpose God has placed on their lives.

You Are The Man – 14 Weeks is for men who are ready to be sharpened, challenged, and encouraged—together.

NEW - You Are The Man & Woman - Couples Small Group Study

You Are The Man – 10-Week Couples Small Group Study is a Scripture-centered discipleship experience that invites wives into the calling, struggles, and leadership journey of their husbands, while equipping couples to pursue God’s design for marriage together.

This study is a companion to the book You Are The Man – Called According to His Purpose. Each week assumes that both husband and wife are actively reading the book, as the discussions and questions flow directly from its themes. The study does not replace the book—it creates a shared space for husbands and wives to process, apply, and live out what is being read.

Over ten weeks, wives are invited into a deeper understanding of the weight their husbands carry—spiritual leadership, responsibility, temptation, doubt, and obedience—while learning the biblical role of a wife as a helper who strengthens, supports, and encourages her husband to lead well. At the same time, husbands are challenged to listen, lead with humility, and love their wives as Christ loves the Church.

Designed for couples small groups, this study creates honest, grace-filled conversations around leadership, unity, communication, prayer, and perseverance. Each week includes Scripture, guided discussion, and practical application that helps couples grow in trust, clarity, and spiritual alignment.

The goal is not perfection, control, or hierarchy—but partnership under Christ, where husbands lead faithfully and wives support wisely, strengthening the marriage God has entrusted to them.

“Inviting wives into their husbands’ calling—and equipping couples to lead together under Christ.”

Calling ALL Men! Husbands, Fathers, Disciples.

Interested in leading a Men’s Discipleship group?
Explore the You Are The Man Book & 14-Week Discipleship Guide—designed for men’s groups, small groups, and one-on-one discipleship.

This 14-week journey will challenge you, encourage you, and equip you to understand what it truly means to be a disciple of Jesus and a disciple-maker. It’s built for every man—from seasoned Christian leaders to brand-new believers.

To get the most out of this study, you’ll need:

  • You Are The Man – 14-Week Discipleship Study Guide

  • You Are The Man – Called According to HIS Purpose (Book)

  • A Bible and a journal

  • Recommended for ages 18+

Each chapter will push you deeper, strengthen your walk with Christ, and prepare you to lead others with confidence and purpose.

Let’s go make disciples.

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Book Description

This book is one man’s story to become “The Man” God is calling all men to be - Spiritual Leaders of their home. But there was that overwhelming question . . . How?

How do you go from being a child of divorce and generational drug addiction to a Man of God? How do you break the chains of being another father with little to no impact on your families walk with Christ.

“You are The Man - Called According to HIS Purpose” is an encouraging everyday story that will challenge the ordinary man to fight for his extraordinary purpose.

All proceeds from book sales go to support missions.

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I’m just like you — a regular man, a regular husband, a regular dad. But God says we are so much more. He’s called us for HIS purpose, and that calling begins with leading our homes spiritually. It isn’t always easy, and the battles are real — but you don’t have to fight them alone.

I’m here to walk beside you. My mission is simple: to encourage men by sharing my story, and to help them find the courage to share theirs.

Join me on this mission.
Let’s become the men God is calling us to be.

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Mission Statement…

  • To Encourage Spiritual Leadership

  • To Develop Discipleships

  • To Connect Churches, Men, and Women to Missions.

  • To Challenge Parents to go on mission with their children.

  • To inspire others to tell their story . . . for HIS Glory!

    And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works!

    - Heb 10:24

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14 Week Men’s Discipleship Study Book

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10 Week Couples Small Group Study

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YOU ARE THE MAN PODCAST

YOU ARE THE MAN PODCAST

You are the Man Podcast!

This is a Podcast for Ordinary Guys, Ordinary Husbands, Ordinary Dads…called to Extraordinary Purpose! Come walk along side Chuckie and Stephen as they navigate the struggles of leading their homes well.

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Men’s conferences, Men’s retreats, Discipleship groups, breakfasts, or leadership intensives—clear, practical messages for men and churches.

Core Topics

  • Calling men to lead at home

  • Fatherhood and legacy

  • Discipleship that actually changes men

  • Balancing work, ministry, and family

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